I have heard this phrase numerous times and in various ways.
Put out the good you want to get back.
Show others how you want them to treat you.
Be the light in the world you want to see in the dark.
If you want your kid to behave a certain way, then model that behavior.
For the most part I didn’t think much about this phrase until I had kids. I am sure you have all noticed that the one thing a kid will mimic or copy from you is the one thing you do not want them to. The hands on their hips. The smart mouth come backs. The cuss words (for those who let them occasionally slip). Even the state of their bedroom is a reflection of yours. And it drives you nuts. They watch us and reflect what they see back.
One of my kids is a master procrastinator, everything can wait till later and nothing needs to be done right now. He can put off Continue reading “Be what you want to See”